You can’t escape it. A new year? It feels … well … new. Much fuss and fury is made of new year resolutions and expectations. But important soul shifting change never seems to happen overnight. In a world of instant gratification, this can leave us feeling empty or with a sense of failure even when we are making positive strides. Rather than setting myself up to feel icky or bad in 2016, an idea occurred to me based on an experience I had over the holiday. I had the pleasure o